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Wednesday, January 15, 2014

My Second Challenge

I was supposed to write this post on Monday. My first challenge was to identify an area that I need to drastically improve. I spent time thinking about it, but not dedicated time. It crossed my mind but I just couldn't decide on what area of my life was the first to get a makeover. So I kept going about my business getting more and more frustrated that I hadn't written this blog post yet. 

Then irony hit me like a ton of bricks. 

I need a realistic, just whelming (as opposed to overwhelming), balanced and organized schedule for our daily life.

I am so disorganized with our time that I am finding a pattern where I start things with good intentions but without a dedicated and committed time to finish them they will never get done. I have been cutting myself some slack since we recently added a second child to the mix. But ultimately I know that when I feel like I know what my goals are daily, how I am structuring my time and what my priorities are, then I can relax more, I can feel success as I check off my list and I can give myself, my husband and my kids the attention they need.

So, I have talked to Paul and tonight we are sitting down, after the girls are in bed, to lay out a first draft of an average schedule for us. We are going to brainstorm and put in place ways for us to keep the schedule and make changes.

Challenge 1 - Identify a first area for improvement - Complete - albeit late, but it's done.
Challenge 2 - Create, organize and share master daily schedule with plan for how to handle changes - To be completed by Friday 01/17/2014

Oh and a special thanks to my best friend Sarah for holding me accountable. She lovingly called me out that I was failing my first challenge. That's obviously exactly what I need and that's why I'm sharing this with all of you!

For those of you that emailed/commented or messaged me - have you set a first goal? Or at least identified an area that needs a drastic makeover?

Oh and this is how I feel when we are on a schedule...


1 comment:

  1. Awesome! I'm glad you have your hubby on board too :D I am *horrible* with setting my own schedule. Positively awful. I use the Flylady system for cleaning, and have been for the past nine months or so. The basic idea is that you get your housecleaning on a rotating schedule, instead of frantically trying to get it done all at once. I have a "Home Control Journal" in a binder with all of my tasks. I have all my housekeeping organized by a daily routine, a weekly routine, a monthly routine, and quarterly and yearly cleaning tasks. I also have an app (loaded with the exact same tasks, the journal was printed out for my hubby) called "Home Routine" that keeps my housekeeping schedule for me AND all my shopping and to-do lists! I'd be completely lost without it. The key to a rotating housekeeping routine is so that you do a bit every day and don't get overwhelmed :D I'd be happy to share my lists with you if you'd like an example, just Facebook message me and let me know <3

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